For many women, the sensation of nearing orgasm can be accompanied by a sensation akin to needing to urinate, a sensation that might discourage exploration. However, this sensation often arises from the release of fluid from the Skene’s glands, located behind the G-spot. When these glands become engorged with fluid, they can exert pressure on the urethra, mimicking the urge to urinate.
The G-spot, a cluster of nerves and tissues about two inches into the vagina along its upper wall, is key to this phenomenon. Although the existence of the G-spot has been debated, numerous women attest to its presence, often finding it easier to stimulate with positions favouring rear entry.
Female ejaculation can vary in volume, from as little as a half-teaspoon to several tablespoons.
Steps to Achieving Female Ejaculation:
Prepare: Empty your bladder beforehand to alleviate any concerns.
Relax and Stimulate: Create a comfortable, arousing environment. Utilise visual aids or toys to enhance arousal. Apply water-based lubricant for added comfort.
Clitoral Stimulation: Begin by stimulating the clitoris to increase blood flow to the G-spot area.
G-spot Exploration: Insert your middle and ring fingers a few inches into the vagina and locate the G-spot—a ridged area along the front vaginal wall. Apply pressure to this area, stimulating the Skene’s glands.
Skene’s Gland Stimulation: Apply pressure behind the G-spot to stimulate the engorged Skene’s glands, akin to the prostate in males. Experiment with finger positioning and motion, maintaining clitoral stimulation for heightened pleasure.
Experiment and Enjoy: Explore what feels pleasurable to you, possibly incorporating toys for added sensation. Deep thrusting motions may be effective for some, but experimentation is key. Embrace the journey, regardless of the outcome.
Remember, discovering female ejaculation is not a measure of sexual prowess. Each individual’s experience is unique, and pleasure should be the ultimate goal, irrespective of the outcome.